Overcoming Life’s Challenges
Hi friends,
It’s been a little while–thank you for your patience and continued support. The past few months have been incredibly tough, and I wanted to be honest about why I have been quiet.
Earlier this spring, my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer, which turned our world upside down. Thankfully, I’m beyond grateful to say she is now in remission–a huge relief and a major victory! Around the same time, my sweet dog was also wrongfully diagnosed with cancer, and while I am thankful that turned out not to be true, it put me through a rollercoaster of fear, sadness, and helplessness.

To be honest, I felt low. Lost, even. Everything I’d built my world around suddenly felt fragile. But those, long, quiet, and emotional days gave me space to reflect on my life–on where I’ve been and where I want to go.
In college, I had the privilege of living out so many of my childhood dreams. I traveled the world, worked for my dream softball team, and soaked up experiences that most people only imagine. However, once those dreams became memories, I realized…I didn’t really know what I was working toward anymore.
Finding Inspiration
Finding your inspiration again can be a daunting task, and I’ve be struggling with it for 4 years. And then, in one of those late-night doom scrolls, a TikTok changed everything. It was about the Camino de Santiago–a pilgrimage across Spain that people walk for all kinds of reasons: healing, clarity, spirituality, purpose.
I became obsessed.
I watched video after video, learning about the journey, the challenges, and the transformation that people experience. Something about it called to me. Deeply.
You see, I’ve struggled with religion for a while now, but in this moment of uncertainty, something in me said, you need this. Not just the walk–but the journey to finding purpose again.
And so, I decided it’s time to set new goals. To give myself something to reach for. Something that lights me up again. Happy Yourself, that’s the whole point, right?
⚡Enter: My Bucket List Challenge.
I’ve always kept a mental list of things I wanted to do “someday,” but never actually wrote them down. That ends today. I’m sharing my bucket list with y’all as part of this new chapter, and my goal is to check of 30 things by my 30th birthday. Some big. Some small. All meaningful.
I would love for you to follow along, cheer me on, and share what’s on your bucket list!
Life can throw us curveballs, but I truly believe we find our joy again when we choose to go looking for it.
Here’s to chasing dreams, finding purpose, and always remembering to Happy Yourself.
Love, Jane.
My Ultimate Bucket List
- Complete the Camino de Santiago
- Get SCUBA certified
- Learn to speak Dutch
- Complete Kumano Kodo
- Visit Devil’s Pool-Victoria Falls
- Take a paddleboat to the middle of Lake Bled
- Visit all 7 wonders of the world (2/7 complete)
- Visit Antarctica
- Visit all 7 continents (4/7 complete)
- Take a hot air balloon ride in Turkey
- Swim with the pigs in the Bahamas
- Go canyoning
See the Northern Lights

- Snorkel/dive the Great Barrier Reef
- Go white water Rafting
- Visit all 50 states (26/50)
- Take a gondola ride in Italy
- Do a VIP tour at Disney
- Visit every Disney Park
- Take a cooking class in Italy
- Publish a book
- Run a 5k
- Run a 10k
- Run a half marathon
- Run a marathon
- Take the Glacier Express train
- Visit Banff National Park
- Visit the Catacombs
- Visit Blue lagoon
- La tomatina festival-Spain
- Carnival-Brazil
- Visit New Orleans for Mardi Gras
- Visit Niagra Falls
- Visit Mauritius
- Go to Oktoberfest
- Drive Route 66
- Stomp grapes
- Fierljeppen-Netherlands
- Float in the Dead Sea
- Visit the Cliffs of Moher
- Visit Stonehenge
- Visit Auschwitz
- Visit Edinburgh
- Visit the Pearl Harbor museum
- Visit the Galapagos
- Visit a Christmas market in Germany
- Visit Angkor Watt
- Visit the Parthenon
- Experience a full day of darkness
- Experience a full day of light
- Audition for a play
- See a show on Broadway
- Visit Giethoorn-Netherlands
- Visit Cuba
- Visit Dracula’s castle-Transylvania
- Do dog sledding on ice
- Salt deprivation tank float
- Stay in a capsule hotel
- See bioluminescence
- Go naked at a nudist beach
- Eat pizza in Italy
- See the leaning Tower of Pisa
- See the cherry blossoms in Japan
- Eat a croissant in France
- Eat a macron in France
- Hike the Dolomites
- See a Haka performance live
- Go to a Luau
- Eat authentic hotpot
- Eat authentic Dim Sum
- Go to a rodeo
- Visit the Singapore airport
- Cruise Ha Long Bay
- See a polar bear in its natural habitat
- Go to a Highland Games in Scotland
- St. Patrick’s Day in Ireland
- King’s Day in Amsterdam
- See the Tulip’s in the Netherlands
- Desert surfing
- Visit a black sand beach
- Train street-Vietnam
- Visit Hoi An
Go to an adult summer camp- Swim in a cenote
- ATV through a jungle or rainforest
- Bathe an elephant
- Visit Joshua Tree
- See a Cirque du Soleil show
- Learn how to take photos
- Join Club 33-Disney
- Get paid to travel
- No credit card debt
- Eat at a Michelin star restaurant
- Visit Salem during Halloween
- Visit Hocking Hills
- Get invited on a yacht in Monaco
- Visit Petra
- See a sumo wrestling match
- Learn to ski
- Do a street food tour in Osaka
- Visit borough market-London
- Do the Wild Africa Trek at Disney
- Learn to ski or snowboard
- Get a tattoo in another country
- Get a a stick and poke tattoo
Share your bucket list items in the comments!
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