Overcoming Life’s Challenges

Hi friends,

It’s been a little while–thank you for your patience and continued support. The past few months have been incredibly tough, and I wanted to be honest about why I have been quiet.

Earlier this spring, my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer, which turned our world upside down. Thankfully, I’m beyond grateful to say she is now in remission–a huge relief and a major victory! Around the same time, my sweet dog was also wrongfully diagnosed with cancer, and while I am thankful that turned out not to be true, it put me through a rollercoaster of fear, sadness, and helplessness.

To be honest, I felt low. Lost, even. Everything I’d built my world around suddenly felt fragile. But those, long, quiet, and emotional days gave me space to reflect on my life–on where I’ve been and where I want to go.

In college, I had the privilege of living out so many of my childhood dreams. I traveled the world, worked for my dream softball team, and soaked up experiences that most people only imagine. However, once those dreams became memories, I realized…I didn’t really know what I was working toward anymore.

Finding Inspiration

Finding your inspiration again can be a daunting task, and I’ve be struggling with it for 4 years. And then, in one of those late-night doom scrolls, a TikTok changed everything. It was about the Camino de Santiago–a pilgrimage across Spain that people walk for all kinds of reasons: healing, clarity, spirituality, purpose.

I became obsessed.

I watched video after video, learning about the journey, the challenges, and the transformation that people experience. Something about it called to me. Deeply.

You see, I’ve struggled with religion for a while now, but in this moment of uncertainty, something in me said, you need this. Not just the walk–but the journey to finding purpose again.

And so, I decided it’s time to set new goals. To give myself something to reach for. Something that lights me up again. Happy Yourself, that’s the whole point, right?

⚡Enter: My Bucket List Challenge.

I’ve always kept a mental list of things I wanted to do “someday,” but never actually wrote them down. That ends today. I’m sharing my bucket list with y’all as part of this new chapter, and my goal is to check of 30 things by my 30th birthday. Some big. Some small. All meaningful.

I would love for you to follow along, cheer me on, and share what’s on your bucket list!

Life can throw us curveballs, but I truly believe we find our joy again when we choose to go looking for it.

Here’s to chasing dreams, finding purpose, and always remembering to Happy Yourself.

Love, Jane.

My Ultimate Bucket List

  1. Complete the Camino de Santiago
  2. Get SCUBA certified
  3. Learn to speak Dutch
  4. Complete Kumano Kodo
  5. Visit Devil’s Pool-Victoria Falls
  6. Take a paddleboat to the middle of Lake Bled
  7. Visit all 7 wonders of the world (2/7 complete)
  8. Visit Antarctica
  9. Visit all 7 continents (4/7 complete)
  10. Take a hot air balloon ride in Turkey
  11. Swim with the pigs in the Bahamas
  12. Go canyoning
  13. See the Northern Lights
  1. Snorkel/dive the Great Barrier Reef
  2. Go white water Rafting
  3. Visit all 50 states (26/50)
  4. Take a gondola ride in Italy
  5. Do a VIP tour at Disney
  6. Visit every Disney Park
  7. Take a cooking class in Italy
  8. Publish a book
  9. Run a 5k
  10. Run a 10k
  11. Run a half marathon
  12. Run a marathon
  13. Take the Glacier Express train
  14. Visit Banff National Park
  15. Visit the Catacombs
  16. Visit Blue lagoon
  17. La tomatina festival-Spain
  18. Carnival-Brazil
  19. Visit New Orleans for Mardi Gras
  20. Visit Niagra Falls
  21. Visit Mauritius
  22. Go to Oktoberfest
  23. Drive Route 66
  24. Stomp grapes
  25. Fierljeppen-Netherlands
  26. Float in the Dead Sea
  27. Visit the Cliffs of Moher
  28. Visit Stonehenge
  29. Visit Auschwitz
  30. Visit Edinburgh
  31. Visit the Pearl Harbor museum
  32. Visit the Galapagos
  33. Visit a Christmas market in Germany
  34. Visit Angkor Watt
  35. Visit the Parthenon
  36. Experience a full day of darkness
  37. Experience a full day of light
  38. Audition for a play
  39. See a show on Broadway
  40. Visit Giethoorn-Netherlands
  41. Visit Cuba
  42. Visit Dracula’s castle-Transylvania
  43. Do dog sledding on ice
  44. Salt deprivation tank float
  45. Stay in a capsule hotel
  46. See bioluminescence
  47. Go naked at a nudist beach
  48. Eat pizza in Italy
  49. See the leaning Tower of Pisa
  50. See the cherry blossoms in Japan
  51. Eat a croissant in France
  52. Eat a macron in France
  53. Hike the Dolomites
  54. See a Haka performance live
  55. Go to a Luau
  56. Eat authentic hotpot
  57. Eat authentic Dim Sum
  58. Go to a rodeo
  59. Visit the Singapore airport
  60. Cruise Ha Long Bay
  61. See a polar bear in its natural habitat
  62. Go to a Highland Games in Scotland
  63. St. Patrick’s Day in Ireland
  64. King’s Day in Amsterdam
  65. See the Tulip’s in the Netherlands
  66. Desert surfing
  67. Visit a black sand beach
  68. Train street-Vietnam
  69. Visit Hoi An
  70. Go to an adult summer camp
  71. Swim in a cenote
  72. ATV through a jungle or rainforest
  73. Bathe an elephant
  74. Visit Joshua Tree
  75. See a Cirque du Soleil show
  76. Learn how to take photos
  77. Join Club 33-Disney
  78. Get paid to travel
  79. No credit card debt
  80. Eat at a Michelin star restaurant
  81. Visit Salem during Halloween
  82. Visit Hocking Hills
  83. Get invited on a yacht in Monaco
  84. Visit Petra
  85. See a sumo wrestling match
  86. Learn to ski
  87. Do a street food tour in Osaka
  88. Visit borough market-London
  89. Do the Wild Africa Trek at Disney
  90. Learn to ski or snowboard
  91. Get a tattoo in another country
  92. Get a a stick and poke tattoo

Share your bucket list items in the comments!

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